A Critical Mistake When Approaching to a Woman - So What’s the Solution?

The solution is to use a little technique called behaving AS IF she’s single, available, and interesting.

You must learn to overcome your initial self-doubt and your doubts about a woman, and behave AS IF every woman you start talking to is SINGLE and AS IF she’s going to be THE ONE, MOST INTERESTING AND WONDERFUL WOMAN EVER.

You must do the things that will attract THAT woman, and forget about the rest.

And you must learn to NOT take the things that happen in between meeting the wonderful ones PERSONALLY.

Gary Halbert, one of the top marketing geniuses in the world, talks about this principle.

He basically says that out of 100 people reading your ad or seeing your commercial, maybe ONE of them is someone who would buy your product anyway.

SO QUIT TALKING TO ALL OF THE 100 PEOPLE, AND ONLY TALK TO THE ONE!

In his words: "Don’t worry about the DOGS, concentrate on selling the FOXES".

I like the metaphor.

Talk to the women you meet AS IF they’re single, open, interesting, and wonderful. And don’t worry about the ones that don’t turn out to actually BE single, open, interesting, available, and wonderful!

Use the things you’re learning from me, and KEEP USING THEM... even if they don’t work sometimes. There are all kinds of reasons why women aren’t interested... or stop being interested... or whatever.

That doesn’t mean that you should stop doing what works!

...which leads me to my next point.

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