A Critical Mistake - Most Guy Are Unaware of What They’re Doing

Most of us guys are running around doing things that we’re not even AWARE OF. Or if we are aware of what we’re DOING, we’re NOT aware of what OTHER people (particularly women) think of our behaviors.

Also, most of us guys allow others to control MOST or even ALL of how we act. Now, we won’t ADMIT that we try to do or say whatever we think will please a woman, and we won’t ADMIT that we’re even mentally anticipating what she’s going to think and acting on it... but it’s happening.

And it’s happening ALL THE TIME.

In fact, if most of us could just get a realistic look at how much we’re trying to read women’s minds and act in a way that pleases women, we’d BITCH-SLAP ourselves silly and we’d mentally yell to ourselves "HEY, WAKE UP!".

Think about the following scenario:

You’re out at a bar, and you start talking to an attractive young woman while trying to order a drink. And let’s even say that she starts the conversation by commenting on how busy it is and how many people are in line for a drink.

You’re thinking to yourself

"I wonder if she has a boyfriend... I wonder if she’s here with someone... I wonder how old she is and if she’d like a guy my age... I wonder if I should buy her a drink so she’ll feel obligated to talk to me and I can keep her attention... I wonder if I should just wait and talk to her later..."

Then, you remember that you’ve been reading my articles and my eBook... and learning from my Advanced Dating Techniques Series... and you decide to use some of your new techniques.

So you say

"Hey, do me a favor. I’ll let you go in front of me if you order my drink for me. All the bartenders are guys, and they’ll give you more attention than they’ll give me, OK? I don’t usually use women just for their bodies this early on in the relationship, but in this case I’m going to make an exception".

She laughs.

You think you’re on a roll.

You then say

"But I’m not going to let you pay for it, OK? I don’t want you thinking that I’m easy and that I’ll give you my number or come home with you just because you paid for my drink".

At this point, she turns around and gives you the "You’re a loser" look, and walks away.

Now let’s think for a moment about what could be going on here...

• She might be married.
• She might be in a bad mood.
• She might be a lesbian (not all that bad, actually).
• She might be offended.
• She might be emotionally unstable.
• She might have mis-heard what you said.
• She might have gotten nervous.
• She might have thought you were ugly.

...or the possibility exists that the technique you used might have been horrible.

But what do MOST guys typically do in a situation like this one?

Most guys typically let their emotions take over, and they think "Well that stuff doesn’t work", and they STOP even trying Cocky & Funny humor.

WHAT A MISTAKE THIS IS!

A lot of guys will even try something and have it WORK for them, then have it NOT WORK just ONCE and quit using it because they stop believing in it.

This is a HORRIBLE mistake!

Let me try to say this all a different way...

Out of a random sample of 100 beautiful women, you’d probably find that only 20 of them (or so) are:

• Single
• Emotionally Stable
• Able to carry on an interesting conversation
• Not stuck up
• Not psycho

This is just an estimate from my own personal experience, but I think you get the point.

Posted in: A Critical Mistake When Approcahing to a Woman,Mistakes to avoid